Showing posts with label Christmas. Show all posts
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Wednesday, January 2, 2013

A Nautical Birthday


I'm sorry some of my traditions got out a little late this month... again.  I am realizing however, that for me to be able to live in the moment, and do these traditions with my family in the season thereof, they will get to you a little after the fact. Hopefully though, you will enjoy reading about what we have done and then use this blog for ideas and resources in the future, if not at present. 

Let me just say though, that I am grateful for how this blog has allowed me to really live in the season!  As I have started following my mom's traditions, I have noticed such a difference in my life as I have begun to really savor the seasons and to enjoy the moment!    This Christmas was CRAZY for us!   I had a lot going on with my work as a Cub Master in the scouting program, we had Christmas to get ready for,  in-laws staying with us for the holidays, and my son's FIRST birthday the day after Christmas!    I think it would have been very easy for our Christmas to have turned into one big to-do list, so much so, that I might have even seen the holidays whiz past me without me ever being able to really stop and savor them.  But thanks to these traditions, I feel like my Christmas, though busy, was rich, full, festive, and special.  I was able to stop not once, but so many times during the season and REALLY enjoy the Christmas with my family and little boy.   I truly feel as though my life and my soul have been enriched and I am so thankful for how my mom is continually teaching me to relish and enjoy every minute and to savor the sweetness of each season!  


I want to share with you wise words by Good House Keeping's Happiness Expert  Gretchen Rubin,  whose words echo my sentiments exactly!

"Enjoy this season and this time of life. In the bustle of every day, and in my desire to get things crossed off my to-do list, sometimes activities like holiday decorating, wrapping presents, or making our special recipe for sweet potatoes can feel like burdensome chores. I constantly remind myself that the holidays aren't a season on the calendar, but an attitude of mind that I must cultivate. This is a wonderful time of the year and a wonderful season in the life of my family. One of my daughters still believes in Santa Claus; the other is still ecstatic over a $6 pair of earrings. They're both excited about spending a day cutting out gingerbread men. I don't want to look back in future years and realize I took this time for granted or was too distracted to appreciate it while it was happening."


I hope this New Year's we can all as Gretchen says,  "Enjoy this season and this time of life!"  

And in the attitude of enjoying the season, and working to appreciate life while it is happening, I thought I'd share with you my son's birthday party!  As I said above, his birthday is the 26th- the DAY AFTER Christmas!   I realized this year what a challenge this is going to be to always have to be ready for a birthday just one day after Christmas, however, it is important to me that he always gets a special day just for him. I don't want his birthday to ever be slighted just because of its timing.   And in the true tradition of my mother-  I wanted his birthday to have a special theme!  Birthdays in my family were always a big to-do. I can still remember how excited we were each year on our birthday to wake up and see what our mom had done to the kitchen-  balloons, cake, presents, decor!  It was magical! 

I decided I wanted to go with something totally unrelated to Christmas so that my son could have a special day all his own!








(His invite)




I have always loved the poem "A Good Play" by Robert Louis Stevenson about two little boys who build a "ship" out of chairs and sofa pillows to "go a sailing on the billows."  To me, it just captures so perfectly the mischief and imagination of little boys.  I guess that's why I've always loved the nautical theme for boys. My son's nursery is decorated with this theme, and I chose it for his birthday party too. 










I served Fish n Chips to go along with the sailing theme. 





And bottled rootbeer.






                             


Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and a Happy New Years!

The Birds' Christmas and Candy Canes



These two traditions are very simple.  The first, the Birds' Christmas comes from Tasha Tudor's book "Take Joy!"  Tasha says, "Birds, too, must be remembered at Christmas time, for these gentle creatures were much loved by the Christ child."    

The Tudor family would make balls of peanut butter, raisins and chopped nuts and then tie them to trees on Christmas morning for the birds to enjoy.  Growing up, we too wished the birds a very merry Christmas by leaving peanut butter treats for them on the branches of our trees. 


Instead of making peanut butter balls we would do ours a little differently though, by making pinecone bird feeders:

1. Select several large pinecones. Any kind will do. Mine this year were a little small and thin, but if you can find fat, large pinecones they work a little better I think.


2. Tie a ribbon or string around one end of the pinecone.




2. Spread peanut butter over the pinecone. Remember to scoop out the peanut butter you will use into a dish or cup, so that you are not continually sticking the knife back into your jar of peanut butter. You don't want pinecone bits to get into it!





4.  Roll your peanut butter covered pinecones in either birdseed or crushed nuts or even bread crumbs. 





5.  Hang your pinecones from the branches of a tree in your yard. 






Then watch the birds come to enjoy your gift to them!  Merry Christmas birds!

As part of this activity, my mom would also read to us "The Man and the Birds" (also called "A Christmas Story") - a short story retold by Paul Harvey that tells how some cold, frightened birds lost in a winter storm helped one man to find the true meaning of Christmas.  You can find the story here.



CANDY CANES


   For the second tradition, we would spend an afternoon all about candy canes.  We would usually make a peppermint treat of some kind even if it was just putting a candy cane in a mug of hot cocoa, and read the book "The Legend of the Candy Cane" by Lori Walburg.




This year I made a peppermint cake!  It quite possibly might be the easiest thing you'll ever make ...

Buy a store bought Angel Food Cake (or make your own). Frost with homemade whipping cream. Sprinkle with crushed peppermint sticks.  (I put unwrapped candy canes in a ziplock bag and then gently pounded them with a hammer. They crushed very easily.)





Then, as a very special part of this tradition, my mom would bring out a small, fragile glass mug with a few peppermint candies in it.  The mug belonged to my great grandma and was a Christmas gift to her when she was a little girl.  Her family didn't have very much money. They lived and worked on a farm and my great grandmother was one of ten children.   That year, the only thing she received for Christmas was this little glass mug with a stick of peppermint candy in it.  

My mom shows us this little mug so that we might realize how blessed we are to have so much and to remind us, as we open all of our toys and gifts on Christmas morning, of the year when all my great grandmother got was one little glass mug and one little stick of peppermint candy. To this day, it is such a beautiful reminder to me to be grateful for all that I have- and to remember that there are so many who are less fortunate than me. 



December: The Nutcracker Party


One of the most magical traditions of Christmas, that many people share, is attending the Nutcracker Ballet, with its glittering costumes, impressive pirouettes and pas de deux, and of course, Tchaikovsky's exhilarating musical suite.  But, the price of tickets to the Nutcracker can sometimes be a little lofty, especially for a family of eight! That's why, while growing up, my family didn't attend it every single year. 
Instead, my mom would do her own version of the Nutcracker at home.
We called it the Nutcracker Party!







While E.T.A Hoffman first wrote the Nutcracker in 1816, there have been many retellings and even different variations of the original story. In each, however, Clara visits the Land of the Sweets where the Sugar Plum Fairy treats her to an array of desserts and delicacies from around the world, including places like China, Denmark, and Arabia. 

In fact, many people don't realize that each of the dances during Act II of the Nutcracker actually correspond to these different confections from their corresponding countries. For example, the Russian Dance represents candy canes, once a delicacy from Russia and the Spanish Dance represents hot chocolate from Spain.  However, when the Nutcracker ballet was created, it incorporated only a selection of the sweets mentioned in the various written versions.  Some accounts tell of balkava from Greece, egg nog from Russia, and Turkish Delight from the Mediterranean.  However, the general idea behind the story is that Clara has the opportunity to sample sweets from around the world.

 

At our Nutcracker party my mother read to us a version of the Nutcracker story, usually an abridged version of Hoffman's, and also played on the piano for us some of the music from the Ballet to familiarize us with these famous overtures and waltzes.  Then, when we reached the point in the story where Clara visits the Land of the Sweets, our mom would bring out a sampling of delicacies and confections from around the world for us to try. There were candied plums and frosted cakes, rich nougat and baklava, german spice cookies and marzipan- truly a delicious assortment of delights!

 Some years we would also watch one of the many Nutcracker films. 
Our personal favorite was "The Nutcracker Prince," an animated version, that while taking many artistic liberties, is perfect for small children. Or, for those of us willing to sit through an actual ballet, many ballet companies have professional recordings- including the famous Kirov and London's Royal Ballets- which we loved! 


This year, while fore-going the actual party, I decided to make an authentic version of the each of the sweets mentioned in the Ballet. It was such a fun undertaking and the recipes proved to be far more simple and easier than I expected!

Below is a list of the Nutcracker Sweets and their corresponding dance, in order of how they usually appear in the Ballet. If you're interested in sharing the story of the Nutcracker with your kids, or even have tickets to see it live, your children will no doubt be intrigued to taste these delicious and, in some cases, unusual confections.  

I have also included a time-saver version to make things a little easier, if you're short on time (or let's be honest, energy)! 


The Nutcracker Sweets

The Sugar Plum Fairy welcomes Clara and the Nutcracker prince to the Land of the Sweets.  Dances are then performed for them, each representing a sweet that was once only part of a fantasy world. These sweets were delicacies that were rare or from foreign countries and were difficult to obtain in the time period the Nutcracker was written.  In a day when traveling was expensive and uncommon, Clara and other little children would have heard of such delicacies but it’s unlikely they would have ever tasted them. Therefore, they belonged only in Clara’s dream world and would have delighted the minds of early readers to imagine a world where all the these sweets existed together in abundance, in
the magical Land of the Sweets!

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Dance:  “Chocolat” or Spanish Dance

Spanish Hot Chocolate
Thick, rich chocolate delicacy.








Sweet Chocolate Version

2        C  whole milk
4 oz   milk chocolate
½ tsp. cornstarch


Pour milk into saucepan and add cornstarch. Whisk to dissolve. Heat on medium just until it boils, then remove from heat. Add chocolate squares or chips immediately and stir until completely melted. If milk cools too quickly place back over stove on low to melt. Consistently will be pudding-like.



Baking Chocolate Version

2  C whole milk 
oz/squares baking chocolate
1/3-1/2  C sugar
½ tsp cornstarch

Pour milk into saucepan and add cornstarch. Whisk to dissolve. Heat on medium just until it boils, then remove from heat. Add chocolate squares or chips immediately and stir until completely melted. Add sugar to desired sweetness and mix until thoroughly dissolved.   Place back on stove on medium low ONLY (higher temps will cause it to lump) stirring slowly but constantly. Mixture will thicken quickly. Remove as soon as it is thickening. Ladle immediately into cups.

Consistently will be pudding-like.


Time Saver:  Serve a chocolate bar or chocolate candies. Or have regular hot chocolate! You could dress it up with a little dollop of whip cream! 



II
Dance: Arabian Dance

Arabian Coffee
(Turkish Delight)
Arabian coffee is brewed according to the Turkish method. I substituted Turkish Delight, since I did not want to serve coffee. 


 Time Saver:  Buy "Fruit Bites" at your local store. These are essentially the same thing as Turkish Delight, but fruit flavored, instead of the traditional rose water flavor, and much easier to come by!  





III
Dance:  Chinese Dancers

Chinese Tea
                          (Chinese Tea Cookies)
        I made authentic chinese tea cookies, instead of serving actual tea.      
                     Tradition holds that the red dot in the center is for good luck!



Time Saver:   Buy some fortune cookies! You can get these at an Asian market or probably buy them from a Chinese restaurant. 




IV
Dance: Russian Dancers

Russian Candy Canes
Once only a rare delicacy from Russia


Time-Saver: None needed here. Just pick up a pack next time you're at the store- They're usually 10 for $1.00.



V
Dance:  Dance of the Danish Marzipan Shepherdesses or  Dance de Mirlitons (Reed Flutes)

Danish Marzipan Cookies
I decorated mine to look like the Mouse King! 

Marzipan Cookies - Betty Crocker


To decorate them like the Mouse King- use a heart-shaped cookie cutter to cut dough. Once baked, frost using a frosting tube or cut a tiny hole in the corner of a plastic bag to squeeze frosting through and decorate as seen above. 

Time-Saver:  You can buy store-bought marzipan or add a few drops of Almond extract to a regular sugar cookie recipe for a marzipan flavor. 



VI
Dance: Mother Gigogne et les Polichinelles

Ginger Bon Bons
While today Mother Ginger’s little children are called Bouffons, they were originally called Bons Bons (word for "candies").  These are real ginger bon bons.





Time-Saver:  You can get ginger flavored candies or serve Ginger Snap cookies. Or any other ginger-flavored treat!





VII
Dance: Sugar Plum Fairy and Cavalier Pas de Deux

(Real) Sugar Plums

Don't let the internet fool you! Today, candy manufacturers would have you believe sugar plums are either sugar glaceed dried plums or plum-flavored gummies with a sugar coating.  But REAL Sugar Plums were derived in Europe in the 1600s and are not actually plums at all. That's because the word "Plum" meant any dried fruit in those days. They consist of a mixture of chopped dates, dried fruit, nuts, honey, orange zest and spice rolled into a small ball and dusted with confectioner's sugar. 


Filling: 
2/3 C raw almonds
2/3 C Cashews
2/3 C old-fashioned rolled oats
2 tsp Cinnamon
1/4 tsp ground cloves
2 tsp. whole chia seeds (I'm not sure how necessary this ingredient is- you could try it without them and see). 
Pinch salt
1 tbsp. finely grated fresh ginger
1 1/2 tbsp Molasses
1 tsp. vanilla
Up to 2 tbsp milk, as needed

Coating: 
White Chocolate or Almond Bark

Place almonds, cashews, oats, spices, chia and salt in food processor and process until it becomes like very fine meal. Add remaining ingredients and process until it starts to clump into a ball. It should stick when you pinch it with your fingers but not be wet! Only add milk if it is necessary to get it to stick. 
Scoop dough and roll into small balls. Place on plate in freezer and chill for about 20 min. 

Meanwhile, melt chocolate or almond bark. Dip frozen balls into chocolate to coat. Freeze again until hard. Remove from freezer and dip an additional time. Freeze. When hardened, dust with cinnamon. 

Time-Saver:  Get the modern, gummy version of Sugarplums available at some candy stores or online.  


And last but not least...

Some Interesting Nutcracker Facts 
(that your kids might be interested to know):

In the original story, Clara's name is Maria. 

The dancers in the role of the Sugar Plum Fairy wear tutus that cost anywhere between $5,000 to $8,000!  

The tutus worn by dancers are hand-sewn and covered in more than 200 jewels each. 

It takes 15 meters of net to make one tutu, and all of the net in the Nutcracker's tutus would stretch the length of 6 football fields. 

It takes 40 hours to make one tutu. 

If the stitchers worked 24 hours a day, it would take more than two straight months to sew all of the costumes for the Ballet. 

Each pair of handmade pointe shoes cost as much as $90 and are imported from London.  In one typical season of the Nutcracker, about 162 pointe shoes will be worn, totaling around $150,000. 

The first time the Nutcracker was performed as a ballet was in St. Petersburg, Russia in 1892. It was considered a failure. Tchaikovsky blamed his music. He died a year later, never to know what a HUGE international success it would later become. 


" Clara knew that someday her love for the Nutcracker would take her back to that magic kingdom where wonderful things await all who have eyes to see them." 

The Nutcracker, E.T.A. Hoffman