Thursday, December 20, 2012

December: The Dolls' Christmas


One of my family's traditions that is most dear to my heart is the Dolls' Christmas!  My mom adapted the idea from Tasha Tudor's book "The Dolls' Christmas" about two porcelain dolls who are treated to a special day of holiday fun by their loving little owners.   

Each year my four sisters and I looked forward to the day when we too would invite our favorite doll to a Christmas party complete with doll-sized Christmas trees,  tiny presents, and dainty finger foods and desserts. However, my mom was careful to include my brothers, who were allowed to bring a stuffed animal or another prized toy.   



As we grew older and our interests turned to things other than dolls and teddy bears, my mother still continued the tradition, as it became a cherished opportunity to invite our special dolls to come out of their boxes and spend an afternoon with us, as we revisited memories of childhood joys.  

Today, my mother loves to hold the annual Dolls' Christmas with her grandchildren. Just like when we were young, the festivities begin in the morning as dolls are lovingly taken from the shelf, or in some cases, carefully unwrapped from storage boxes, and readied for the occasion.  Their prettiest dresses are donned and their hair smoothed and tied up with ribbons, as the laughter and excited chatter of little girls getting their dolls ready carries throughout the house. 

When it is time for the party to begin, the girls and their special guests are invited to decorate miniature Christmas trees with tiny lights and ornaments.  (You can get similar trees and ornaments at any craft store!)







Tradition holds that among all of the dolls, there is one particularly special guest of honor. It is my great Grandma's doll Isabelle who is now over 100 years old. As the lid of her aging box is lifted, and her tissue paper blanket pulled aside, this fragile doll is gently set out for all to see.   My mother then reads to us a beautiful account, written from Isabelle's point of view, of how this special doll came to be and how she was so loved by my great grandmother.  Afterwards, Isabelle, in her white poplin dress, is carefully seated in a chair in the corner to oversee the afternoon's amusements. 









My mom also likes to read to us Tudor's The Dolls' Christmas  and other Christmas books about dolls, such as The Gingerbread Doll by Susan Tews. Following story-time, each little girl is invited to the table with her doll, where a feast of finger foods and pretty little confections is spread. At each place is a small present for the dolls- perhaps a new hair comb or accessory.


This scrumptious fare of bitsy bites is a delight to small hands and tummies, and I'm not talking about the dolls. It is perfect for little children! I'm sure your kids will love it every bit as much as we did! And the best part is that finding these miniature foods is SO easy and fun. I was astounded at the store how many things come in miniature sizes these days. Just look for anything that says "Bite-sized" or "Mini!" The possibilities are endless- from bite-sized Oreos and Chips Ahoy, to Bagel Bites pizza and miniature Klondike Bars! 


Since I just have a little boy, we invited his teddy bears and stuffed giraffe to the party instead of dolls. Even my husband, who had originally laughed at the idea of a "Dolls' Christmas," soon found himself seated at the table happily eating miniature quiche and tiny cheese and crackers. Hmmm, wonder who got the last laugh?


This is what I served:

Chicken Salad Sandwiches on 'Dollar Rolls' 
(These are really small rolls you can find in the bakery section of your grocery store- if they don't have them just ask, they'll make them for you)!




Babybel Cheese with Keebler Club Minis Crackers
(It looks like a tiny Brie cheese. Or you could make a mini cheese ball!)



Mini Relish Tray
  Small olives, carrots, baby dill pickles, and tiny brocoli florets. 



Tostitos Bite-Sized Tortilla Chips with Salsa



Cutie Oranges



Mini Quiche  
(Available in the freezer section at your grocery store or Sam's Club/Costco)




Mini Pigs-in-a-Blanket
(Little Smokies sausages rolled up in Pillsbury Crescent dough. Just cut each triangle of dough into 3-4 smaller triangles and roll up sausage. Bake at 350 until golden brown.)



Mini Peppermint Milano Cookies
Yes, these come miniature sized!



Mini Sugar Cookies
Just use tiny cookie cutters to cut out shapes!




Mini Cupcakes
I got mine ready-made in the bakery section at the grocery store!




To drink we have Cherry 7 Up - somehow sparkling pink soda is perfect for a Dolls' Christmas!

How primly and straight you sit in your places
With velvet bonnets, ribbons and laces.
Too rare, too valuable now to hold,
Somehow you look so lonesome and cold.

What wonderful stories you must know
Of the doting children who loved you so,
Of playing house with a special friend
And marvelous games of "let's pretend."

Why have they left you? Where have they gone?
As you sit on the shelf do you ever yearn
For tottering footsteps to return?
For the familiar voice of a dear young miss,
Her love-able arms- her warm little kiss?

Ah! but then you are only toys
And of course you know nothing of sorrow and joys.
So why can't I shake this feeling my dears,
That you are very close to tears?

Anonymous
Poem at McCurdy Doll Museum



Have a Dolls' (or a teddy bear) Christmas with your kids.  Introduce them to one of your prized dolls or favorite toys from your youth- tell them why that toy meant so much to you.  Then enjoy delicious little foods that your kids (and you!) will love, and let yourselves get lost for an afternoon in the magical world of make-believe.    I promise, you won't regret it.













Thursday, December 6, 2012

December: Gingerbread


Gingerbread

When my mom was a little girl she loved the story of Hansel and Gretel and the witch who lived in a gingerbread house. The wear and tear of her beloved childhood copy of the book is proof. 

Due to her love of this story, when we were little, each Christmas our mom would share with us the story of Hansel and Gretel as we celebrated a week filled with gingerbread fun. 

We would decorate gingerbread houses, make gingerbread cookies and cake, and also read the story "Gingerbread Baby" written and illustrated by Jan Brett. 

One year however, our mom surprised us with tickets to the Opera Hansel and Gretel. For the weeks leading up it, she taught us the music and words to the Opera so that on the performance night we would not be encumbered by confusion, since operas are often very hard to understand.  Then, on the night of the performance, she handed each of us a little tin that looked like a gingerbread house, filled with colorful ribbon candy to enjoy during the show. 


The original tin she gave me almost twenty years ago. 

Years later when I sang in a choir in college, our director one day introduced to us a new song we would be singing. It was the beautiful song "Evening Prayer" from the opera Hansel and Gretel.  The director asked, by raise of hands, how many students in the choir of about 100, had been to this opera? I was the only one who raised my hand. Surprised, he then asked how many were at least familiar with the famous song "Evening Prayer?" Again, I was the only one who raised my hand.  

A girl seated next to me leaned over and whispered, "How do you know this song?"  I replied, "My mother taught it to me."  The girl leaned back over and said, "I hope someday I can be that kind of mother."  I whispered back, "Me too." 

My mom never wanted her children to be close-minded or uncultured. Instead, she wanted to open our eyes to the many wonders this world has to offer and expose us to a plethora of different experiences, cultures, ideas, and even foods.  I am thankful for her efforts to always expand my horizon of understanding and broaden my scope of experience. My life has certainly been richer and the better because of it. 


This year for gingerbread week, 
while we didn't decorate gingerbread houses, all the grandkids made gingerbread cookies with my mom! 





My mother's Gingerbread Cookie recipe:


1 cup shortening
1 cup sugar
1 egg
1 cup molasses
2 tbsp vinegar

Thoroughly cream shortening with sugar.  Stir in egg, molasses and vinegar; beat well.

5 cups flour
1 1/2 tsp soda
1/2 tsp salt
2 to 3 tsp ginger
1 tsp cinnamon
1 tsp cloves

Add dry ingredients to molasses mixture.  Chill about 3 hours.

Roll out onto floured surface. Cut into desired shapes. Bake on ungreased cookie sheet at 350 degrees.


She also set out a jar of store-bought gingerbread cookies and shortbreads to enjoy all week long.




We also made gingerbread cake. My family likes it with homemade whipped cream and sliced bananas! I prefer a store-bought mix over homemade cake, the ginger is usually a little less strong that way.



I've also added  a new tradition in my own little family- making gingerbread waffles with warm buttermilk syrup! This recipe is from my mother-in-law and is SO good. 




Gingerbread Waffles

3 eggs  (separated)
1/4 C. sugar
1/2 C. molasses 
1 C. buttermilk



1 1/2 C. flour 1 t. ground ginger 1/2 t. ground cinnamon 1/2 t. ground cloves 1/2 t. salt 1 t. baking soda 1 t. baking powder 6 T. butter, melted and cooled


Preheat waffle iron. Beat egg whites and fold in last.  In a small bowl, beat eggs  sugar, molasses and buttermilk.

In a large bowl, sift together flour, ginger, cinnamon, cloves, salt, baking soda and baking powder. Add to batter and stir, then add butter and combine. Fold in egg whites.

Pour 1/2 to 3/4 cup batter into very hot waffle iron and bake 4 to 5 minutes. Serve hot.

Makes 6 waffles.

Buttermilk Syrup
1 c. sugar½ c. butter½ c. buttermilkCombine and bring to a boil.  Remove from heat and add ½ tsp. baking soda.  Serve.  Store in refrigerator.  Can add little vanilla and white karo syrup (2T) to keep crystals from forming.




Lastly, I found these foam gingerbread men at Michael's to decorate! They come in a pack of 24 so there are plenty to go around!  They even have gingerbread houses too- a fun and certainly less messy alternative to the real thing. Although who doesn't love getting their hands covered in frosting now and then.


More Christmas traditions to come! Thanks for reading!

December: A Believing Heart



A Believing Heart


"Believe means, I might never see it happen, but Santa will come and eat them. I just know it." 
Christmas Cookies, Amy K. Rosenthal



I can still hear the sound of my dad's voice reading to me the story of Polar Express. How many Christmases my siblings and I cuddled close on the couch to hear his strong but soothing voice read aloud this childhood classic. 

Reading Polar Express has long been one of my family's traditions, part of what my mother calls "A Believing Heart." This Christmas custom has to do with keeping alive the magic of Santa Claus in the hearts of her children, even now when we have all grown up.

 The first thing we do is read the famous article, now in published book form, called "Yes, Virginia, There is a Santa Claus."  This editorial appeared in the New York Sun in 1897 and is one of the most famed newspaper articles ever written. It was the editor's reply to an 8 year old girl's written query to the Sun: Is there really a Santa Claus?  It is a beautiful, timeless response- a must read each Christmas!




"Not BELIEVE in Santa Claus?  Nobody sees Santa Claus, but that is no sign that there is no Santa Claus. The most real things in the world are those that neither children nor men can see." 
Yes, Virginia, there is a Santa Claus, Frank Church



Then as I mentioned, our dad would always read to us Polar Express, another beautiful reminder of the power of having a believing heart.  Thanks to the magic of motion picture, we now are able to also watch Polar Express the movie each year!

My mom has included as part of this holiday tradition a Hot Chocolate Party, in honor of the scene from the movie (and book) where the children are served hot chocolate aboard the Polar Express



I was lucky enough to be home for a visit a few weeks ago, so I got to participate in this tradition with my family!  It was one of the best highlights of my trip- watching twelve of my mom's grandchildren -ages 11 months to thirteen years- rock out with her to the song "Hot Chocolate" (from the Polar Express soundtrack) while whipping up mugs of steaming cocoa. It truly was a party!




My mom served lots of different kinds of hot chocolate: French Vanilla, Mint, Dark Chocolate, Caramel creme, etc. 




With lots of flavors of marshmallows too: vanilla, peppermint, even gingerbread flavor!





As a party favor, my mom gave each of her children and grandchildren a tiny tin of hot cocoa (from Crate and Barrel) and mini Hot Chocolate flavored 3 Musketeers. 


Have a hot chocolate party with your kids this year, and be sure to dance and sing along to the song "Hot Chocolate!" And may you and yours this Christmas choose to have a believing heart!





"Listen, do you hear the bell? Remember, the bell still rings for all who truly believe."
Polar Express, Chris Van Allsberg